Love is never lost when perspective is earned — a reference to the song, Peter.
Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all — Alfred Lord Tennyson
How many times have you had your heart broken? How many times have you grieved the loss of someone you wanted, and how many times have you cried in pain when things ended between the vows you made for each other? I know we can all relate to this.
Love has become a powerful string connecting everyone, a connection that has become a huge part of our happiness and sometimes the opposite of it, and that awakens poignant memories of our happier days. Isn’t ironic? We call it love, but somehow it causes us great sadness.
In this generation, where love has many faces, there are different kinds of love that could impact us in so many ways. People often exhibit traits such as aggression, passion, commitment, and playfulness, among others.
In our society, lost love connotes negative views. But it always depends on a love’s true value and what new perspective it may offer after it ends. It really depends on a person and how he or she views a lost love, but it could be a great tool for personal growth. Isn’t it?
People part ways after a lost love, but that doesn’t mean your life will end there. Love is a continuous and enriching journey, and reflecting on our past relationships in a constructive manner helps us to build a strong foundation of self-love and self-worth.
As Taylor wrote in her song, “Love is never lost when perspective is earned,” you truly never lose love when you gain a new perspective out of it. And that could be one of the lessons that we could learn in the pursuit of love. When you embrace it, reflect on it, and gain wisdom from it, it leads to personal growth. And now, that’s power!